Self Love
- Daniel Casseus
- Mar 5
- 5 min read
Today, I want to delve into the intricate concept of the self, particularly because I've been observing that many individuals I deeply respect as knowledgeable teachers often present this topic in a somewhat misleading manner. Their interpretations often lack the nuance that is necessary for a true understanding.
Before we explore this subject further, let's take a moment to reflect on what Scripture has to say about the nature of the self. Various religious texts offer profound insights into identity, purpose, and our connection to the divine. For example, in the Bible, verses such as Genesis 1:27 remind us that we are created in the image of God, suggesting that our selfhood is not just individual but inherently tied to a greater spiritual essence.
By examining these perspectives, we can gain a clearer understanding of our own identity and the roles we play in the larger fabric of existence. Let’s consider how these insights might challenge or enrich our current views on the self.
Whoever gets sense loves his own soul; he who keeps understanding will discover good.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.
See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
I feel compelled to share these verses because I've noticed a recurring notion among many that one must love oneself before being able to love others. However, I struggle to find any scriptural backing for this idea. Please don’t misinterpret my perspective; I’m not suggesting that individuals shouldn’t practice self-love or care for their well-being. Rather, I believe one of the most significant challenges we face today is the overwhelming focus on the self. Our society has become increasingly consumed by pride and vanity, often leading us to be preoccupied with our own thoughts and feelings.
Many are dubbing our current times as the most narcissistic era in history. Individuals go to great lengths to enhance their appearance, often opting for provocative styles designed to catch the attention of others. This trend raises concerns about the values we uphold as a society. It is particularly disheartening to observe that some Christians have begun to embrace these self-centered principles, which strays from the humility and grace that one would hope to see reflected in their lives.
We don’t have an issue with this perspective; in fact, the message we find in scripture offers a different, yet profound insight. It emphasizes the importance of prioritizing our love for God above all else, devoting our entire being—mind, body, and soul—to this divine relationship. By fully embracing this love and nurturing it, we cultivate a deeper understanding and appreciation of our faith. This foundational love then empowers us to extend that same love to our neighbors, encouraging us to treat others with the same kindness, respect, and compassion that we desire for ourselves. It is through this twofold commandment that we truly embody a life of faith and community.
In the verse referenced above, God clearly instructs us to love one another in the same way that He loves us. This command highlights the importance of cultivating a vertical relationship with God, which serves as the foundation for our interactions with others. By focusing our devotion and spiritual energy upward, we open ourselves to receive God’s infinite love and grace. This divine love then equips us to express genuine, selfless love to those around us. It is through this vertical connection that we are empowered to engage horizontally with our friends, family, and communities, reflecting the depth of God's love in our lives and fostering true, meaningful relationships based on compassion and understanding. Ultimately, this process transforms not only our hearts but also the world in which we live.
God's Word is clear: we are called to shift our focus away from ourselves and prioritize the needs of others. This means that we should strive to serve, uplift, and support those around us, putting their well-being ahead of our own interests. By doing so, we embody the principles of compassion and love that are central to our faith. Let us commit to acts of kindness and generosity, recognizing that true fulfillment comes from making a positive impact in the lives of others.
To conclude, the only time God speaks of self is when He addresses us about ourselves. He tells us two key things: to exercise self-control and to love our neighbor as ourselves.
Matthew 22:39
And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
I hope this finds you and helps you grow in Jesus Christ.
May God bless all who pass through my page.
Peace & Shalom
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